Secrets Are Not Good for Any Relationship
It is a common occurrence that secrets kill relationships. It is very common that after you have been dating a person for only a short while, you get a good idea of their lifestyle. It is not bad to remember though, that the person may actually hide some secrets he is not ready to share with you.If you suspect that something doesn’t connect and you wonder what he is hiding, look out for some telltale signs.
If he keeps it secret about his parents, there may be explanations to this.First, he might want to avoid the topic in case you would like to meet his parents.Secondly, his relationship with the parents may be sour for reason he will not share with you yet. You will need to establish who they are and how they grew up if you are still interested to continue with the relationship.
If you have never met his friends, you have something to worry about. Seek to know the friends he talks about meeting if he has never introduced you to them. This may be used to distract you so that he gets to someone important in his life or to go to a bad habit. He may try to do this since his friends may not approve of you or you may not approve of them.Whatever makes up for the reason if you would know the truth, you might need to use some force to see clearly.
Although you may know what work he does, he never talks about it. He may be either jobless or doing what he didn’t say he does.
If he fails to talk about his past relationships, consider carefully. There may be very many reasons why he will not want you to know the names. They may actually be in a potential relationship. They may hate the memory of their past messed up relationships. Whatever the reason is, ensure that they are not hiding a dangerous thing.
Your newly found man might have a very dark past or even a secret.Although rare, you may be lucky, and he can merely be ashamed of the lack of his etiquette and eloquence skills. A serious man in a relationship will hardly hide his home and will actually offer to take you to know his home. He can also drop you by to see his place.
Whenever you wonder why your new man is very secretive, simply look out for these signs and ensure he is not trying to keep you in the dark.